Day 08 → Someone who made your life hell, or treated you like shit.

Here is where my toughness come to the fore. I do not tolerate anyone treating me like shit or making my life hell.  I tend to simply give them hell.

My boss has gone some way towards making my life hell in the last couple of months.  Actually he is a new boss and he couldn’t have started at a worse time, just as we were embarking on our first IVF.  He is a bit of an idiot (yes I also don’t pull my punches!)  But as I said I simply don’t tolerate that and the poor guy has ended up on the wrong side of a tongue lashing from me a few times.  But it has worked, he seems to have developed a bit of a grudging respect and no longer get’s in my face much.

This challenge is beginning to feel like a bit of a downer.  Seems like too much of it is depressing, starting to question completing it.  I am generally feeling down enough without adding this into the mix.  Also I am finding that I have other things to say and this format doesn’t leave much room for it.  Actually that was part of the point for me of doing this challenge, I was so uninspired to write that I was struggling to put any thoughts down.  And I hoped that the challenge would kick start things again, by at least getting me back into the act of putting down words.  So I may keep this going, light version and go back to blogging the old fashioned style, where on any given day I decide what to blog about.

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About MommyAtLast

Finally a Mommy to our Medical Miracle IVF Boy / Girl Twins who were born in November 2011. We overcame azoospermia using hormone therapy for my hubby to conceive our precious Hope Babes on our 4th IVF.
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2 Responses to Day 08 → Someone who made your life hell, or treated you like shit.

  1. Kitty8218 says:

    You’ve come this far, keep at it, it has a purpose!

  2. Erika says:

    There is a great quote – which I can’t remember in the exact words – but it boils down to: “when nothing, becomes something, they often misuse power”
    Your boss sounds like that type of person. In Afrikaans we have this saying: “wanneer die pispot ‘n deksel kry” – sorry a little crude, I know, but it has some truth in it!

    This truth thing, has made me realise that infertility is playing such a huge part in our life’s – even when your trying not to write about it, it turns up!
    Maybe a good idea to mix it up a bit if it’s only making you feel worse!
    But I love reading this, as it gives you a lot of insight into the thoughts of other people – how different we are, yet still so the same!

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